Next Dinner Meeting - January 7, 2015
Meet Up and Dine Out!
First Wednesday of the month -- 8:00 p.m.
at the Hyannis Holiday Inn ... Mad Hatter Lounge
Wednesday, January 7, 2015 -- 7:30 p.m.
Dine out: Di Parma - Embargo - McGrath's
Note - We Do Not Meet in July or August
ARTICLE - ADVANTAGES OF A CROSSDRESSING HUSBAND
INNVESTMENTS HAS ALWAYS CATERED TO BOTH CROSSDRESSERS AND TRANSSEXUALS!!!
THERE ARE NOW GROUPS THAT MEET FOR EACH OF THE ABOVE PURPOSES.
THE MONTHLY DINNER MEETING AS SCHEDULED ABOVE IS MADE UP MOSTLY OF CROSSDRESSERS.
THERE IS A GROUP THAT MEETS AT THE BREWSTER UNITARIAN CHURCH EACH MONTH THAT IS MADE UP MOSTLY OF TRANSSEXUALS OR THOSE THAT WANT TO BE.
EVERYONE IS WELCOME AT EITHER GROUP!!!
There is a TG/TS group that meets every 2nd Wednesday at First Parish Brewster/Unitarian Universalist Church in The Winslow House at the corner of Route 6A and Harwich Rd./Route 124, just across from the General Store. Meeting is from 7-9 PM and is facilitated by Carol. The group may be contacted at Cape Trans for more information. Group is topic oriented and focused on peer support.
WHO AM I???
I like to dress in the clothes of the opposite sex whenever I can. It makes me feel so good! I like the feel of all those lovely things and the way they make me look. I think women are so lucky to be able to wear all those pretty things on a daily basis. There is so much more variety in the items they wear from the colors to the materials to just about everything. Men's clothes are awful to shop for! Pants only come in about four colors. Every day at work I wear the same outfit, shirt, tie and pants.
But women can wear a skirt and sweater one day, slacks the next and a dress after that. But there are so many different styles and colors of dresses alone. There are dresses that are meant to be casual, flirty, sexy, business like, plain (if there is such a thing), and of course dressy including short dresses all the way to evening gowns.
And then there are all those sexy under things that go on even before you put on the pretty outer things. I have often said that getting ready is half the fun! Well maybe even more than that.
I get dressed to some extent as often as I can. That can mean every night sometimes or maybe just a few times a month. It depends on my opportunities and my needs.
I also enjoy going back and forth between guy mode and girl mode. There are still many things I like about being a guy.
I am a crossdresser.
I used to be a crossdresser but not anymore. I just enjoy being a women so much that I don't want to put it away anymore. I want to stay like this ALL the time now. I can no longer just put my 'girl' self in a box at the end of an evening out with my friends.
Ever since I was a child I have felt out of place in my male body. I remember wanting to play with dolls and being jealous of all the pretty clothes my sisters used to wear. When I was a teenager I was never that crazy about dating girls. I eventually got married but I just never felt completely right.
Being dressed as a lady is not really a turn on for me. It just feels like this is the way I should be. It feels like this is the way I always should have been. My family and friends are still trying to understand what I am doing. It is hard for them to understand. I just say that this is what is right for me.
Some of my friends have said that I MUST get an SRS operation if I want to keep on living like this. I am not sure that they are at all right or that I really need that step. I have friends that have lived like me for many years and have never gotten an operation. That can work for me.
It has been a lot of trouble and work to change my life from being a man to being a women. I finally feel like I am in the right place.
I am a transsexual MTF.
PLEASE HELP ME. THE ABOVE IS JUST A
WORK IN PROGRESS.
I VERY MUCH WANT YOUR CONTRIBUTIONS AND IDEAS.
PLEASE EMAIL ANY ADDITIONS TO THE ABOVE TO BRENDA L